Cerita Si Oma

When are you gonna get married? Who is your first love? Have you ever eaten any disgusting food? If you have to choose whether to live in Holland and have a good job or live in Indonesia and jobless, which one would you choose? etc. etc. If you have some questions in mind that have popped up in your mind for some times, you can ask me . I would answer (hopefully) all of your questions, unless they are really dodgy or intimidating :P So, click here to Ask Me Anything . p.s. thanks for Ulm for the inspiration to log in to this geeky site.

What does a 'goodbye' mean? Is it an expression to show that you will meet that person again sometimes? or is it to show how a wonderful time you just had with that person? Either way, there is nothing painful or hard about saying goodbye, then. But why is it always so hard, or painful, or sad to say goodbye to someone, especially when it is forever goodbye? Another concern that came to my mind is why we have to say goodbye when we least expect it. Sometime we are not prepared to say goodbye, or we just simply don't want to say goodbye; but we still have to say goodbye. goodbye = good + bye thus, there must be something good about it, right? Thus, the last question, if it is supposed to be good, why cannot we have it figured out easily? Why do we first have to cry and to be puzzled by the goodbye, and one day, just maybe, we will discover the meaning of it? I guess I must say goodbye, even I don't want it now. Goodbye, Bang.