Cerita Si Oma

This time, I choose to runaway Pernah ngga kalian berpikir esensi kalimat ini “the closer you are to someone, the more likely you get hurt”? Beberapa minggu ini Oma merasa seberapa penting dan benarnya kalimat ini. Ya, semakin kita dekat dengan seseorang, semakin besar kemungkinan orang itu untuk menyakiti perasaan kita. Then, I started questioning myself, to what extent I want to get hurt? The answer is no one would like to get hurt, if they can choose , neither would I. Oma tidak pengen disakiti, karena, indeed, rasanya sakit. Then, another question arises, if you know that you would get hurt once in a while, then why do you want to become closer and closer to someone? Yes, this time, I again choose to runaway

Love hurts, love scars, love wounds Gitu kata Nazareth. 'Cause everybody hurts. Take comfort in your friends Kalo ini kata R.E.M Nah, gimana kalo friendship hurts? Ndak ada satu pun lagu yang bilang kalo friendship tuh bisa hurts. Friends forever (Vitamin C) You Are My Best Friends (Queen) You’ve Got A Friend (Carol King) Even Jason Mraz bikin lagu untuk seorang teman “You know we'll got a lot to go around I'll be your friend” “I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you every once in awhile and you must forgive them for that.” Mungkin ngga quote ini bener? Dan haruskah kita memaafkan walaupun apa yang temen kita lakukan menyinggung perasaan? Why is it so difficult for me to resolve conflict and forgive?