Lesson learned on my weekend!

This weekend, Stefy had a football match, and having known this for a while, I have planned a saturday away with some friends.

So, here I am, just came back from a very meaningful gathering that has given more than happiness and relaxation.

A few things I learned today:

There are no boundaries in friendship. Being a friend for someone means you just got to accept both this friend's good and bad sides. Even if you must always be the one, who should have a bigger heart, a forgiving heart.
You just can't stop being friends! Hardship, happiness, distance, time, money, mental disorder, success,.. nothing can cancel a friendship - unless you say so.
A spouse is someone, who is not always giving you good, easy time. A spouse should be someone, who will always challenge you, giving you hard time, if necessary, for the sake of being a better person.
Finally, I learn today that a couple is two people sharing their dream - not necessarily have to share the same vision - but they should understand each other's dream, and help each other to seize it.
And most importantly, I learn that HTM (public transport company in the Hague) is much more reliable than NS (train company in the Netherlands). Thank you for bringing me home safely, HTM!

Comments

uways said…

Nice blog.. :) salam kenal..

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Oma Nia said…

thanks :)
salam kenal juga

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