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Korban Gagal Move On

Sudah lebih dari 1 bulan semenjak saya mengunggah tulisan saya lagi di Facebook dan blog, atas dukungan Ega. Dan sudah lebih dari 1 bulan juga saya absen nulis. Well, janji tinggallah janji.

Tapi lebih baik terlambat daripada tidak sama sekali, right? Daripada kita off topic, mendingan saya ceritakan alasan saya tiba-tiba menghilang dr dunia socmed. Well, bukan menghilang, tp lay low. Tp ada temen yang sampek nyangka saya deactivate account gara-gara jarang eksis.

Sejak sebelum lebaran, saya diminta boss untuk bantuin mengecek budget marketing untuk tahun depan. Well, how hard can it be? Boss bilang saya disuruh ngecek semua angka match up dan itung2annya bener. Ok sip!

Ternyata job description 'membantu' itu sangat ambigu, sodara-sodara. Yang ada, saya ikut mengerjakan budget itu dan semua teori akuntansi yang pernah saya pelajari dalam hidup, harus dikeluarkan.

Sayangnya, saya hampir tidak pernah belajar akuntansi. Waktu SMA, saya selalu bolos atau bahasa kerennya dulu 'escape' pas kelas akuntansi! Entah alasan sakit, latihan paduan suara, meeting OSIS, atau apapun! Kalau ulangan, well saya hanya mengandalkan teman sebangku :p yes, guilty!

Waktu kuliah, saya sudah yakin benar bahwa di jurusan pilihan saya tidak ada pelajaran akuntansi. Yeah right, memang ngga ada akuntansi, tapi ada Business Economics, yang sama aja isinya. Tapi pas kuliah ada teman yang sangat baik yang ngebantuin saya ngerjain tugas Business Economics menganalisa 3 annual reports. I passed dengan nilai pas-pasan.

Lega. Dan saya berjanji tidak akan bertemu akuntansi lagi. Sampai bulan lalu. Seperti mantan yang gagal move on, akuntansi ini muncul lagi dalam hidupku. Sudah 1 bulan ini saya tidak tidur nyenyak, makan juga tak enak, dan kadang bisa stress. Gejalanya kayak orang jatuh cinta, but trust me, I am not falling in love with Accounting just yet.

So, what did I learn from this lesson?
1. Bila diminta untuk membantu, minta penjelasan detail apa job des Anda sebagai seorang 'pembantu'.
2. Buat yg masih kuliah/sekolah, bolos itu sangat tidak terpuji, apalagi kalo bolosnya ngga cuma sekali. Make sure kalo bolos jangan bareng-bareng 10 temen sekelas yang duduknya berdekatan (this will be discussed in another story)
3. Mencontek dan menyuruh orang lain mengerjakan tugas itu juga tidak terpuji, apalagi memanfaatkan cowok yg lagi PDKT untuk membantu mengerjakan tugas. Yeah I know, guilty!

The morale of this story adalah masalah sulit janganlah dihindari, tapi dihadapi. Jangan move on dari masalah sulit. Move on-nya dari mantan aja yah!

Comments

aisyah said…
harus bisa move on, semangat untuk move on

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