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Blue Valentine

Have you seen this film called Blue Valentine?



If you haven't, you should! In fact, you must.

Blue Valentine ain't a chick flick or drama comedy that is just like any other chick flick or drama comedy.

This film makes you think, make you ponder about relationship, love, marriage, courtship,...


This film makes you question: when the love has gone, what should you do?

The funny thing is that Stefy and I watched this film when we celebrated our one decade anniversary (yes, you read it correctly, one decade, 10 YEARS!). During the film, I kept asking myself, would it also happen in my marriage?

In the end, Stefy and I had an interesting discussion about this film, about our relationship, and what we should and shouldn't do to prevent having similar issue.

We can conclude, in the end, that falling in love is easy, staying in love is challenging, yet it is possible :)

Despite the gloomy feeling after watching the movie, we both love the soundtrack!

Comments

Vickstene said…
Happy one decade anniversary :D

Can’t help to comment about this movie.

The female character whatever her name was annoyed me. My impression of her : she’s whinny ungrateful selfish bitch. He love her unconditionally ( married her even thought she was pregnant, being a good dad, tried to keep the romance going , etc etc). She was just whinny, depressive, and just blame it on her marriage. I just didn’t believe people could fall out of love WITHOUT any good reason. In Blue valentine, they didn’t show the reason why would she fall out of with him.
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