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Is it okay?

If I had a continuous conversation with a man, without any feeling attached from my side
yet there is feeling attached on the other side
and I enjoy this converstation simply because I like the converstation we are having and he is fun to talk to
Would it be okay or not?

Or
If I liked my classmate simple because he is cute, smart, and as crazy as me
yet I knew that there isn't any more serious feeling attached (so just simply like)
and I even knew that this classmate had a girlfriend and didn't like me (although he mentioned that I am pretty :P *blush*)
Would it be okay or not?

And If I had always been a fan of an artist and then this artist became my friend
yet he told me that he liked me and wanted to marry me
however I still was the biggest fan of him, yet I didn't want anything more serious or more dangerous to happen in the future
thus I decided not to end the contact with him, yet I tried to keep the relationship as neutral as possible.
Would it be okay or not?

Ah,.. this being engaged and being in a relationship for 8 years make me really confused

Something I simply didn't know what's right and what's wrong.

Gosh,..

I really should get married ASAP, then I suppose my life would be easier
At least,

I hope :P
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Unknown said…
you know quite well, that it's not ok :p
21:50
The tai-tai (wannabe) said…
I don't think marriage is the right answer in your problem...I think it's just an escape, and in the end, it might create another problem.

You should ask youself with whom you are the most comfortable with because marriage is gonna be forever, I hope, and you dont wanna get stuck there and regret for the rest of your life,right?

In sum, neither the length of your relationship nor the engagement can stop your feeling. Let the love lead your way! =)
21:58
sapikurus said…
humm.. i think its just ok.. being in a relationship, or even married, dont mean that you hv to cut all your relationship with other opposite gender.. well of course as long as it isnt romantic, or leading to romantic kind of relationship.
well,sometimes it even help to improve our relation with our own partner..
well in the end... married someone is to make them happy. jealousy after all created by our own ego. =)
at least thats my opinion. =)
23:27
Oma Nia said…
Hehehe,.. thank you ya buat masukannya untuk oma :P

I guess it is just me being naughty or curious. I really reallly have to stop taking my current partner for granted
11:23
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