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What men want

Baru saja Oma membaca sebuah e-mail forward-an dari Mas Widyanto (bvoice). Awalnya tidak ada niatan untuk membaca, tapi tidak sengaja terbuka, dan akhirnya terpampang lah sebuah artikel yang cukup menggelitik! *kitik, kitik, kitik,..*

Pria menginginkan perempuan,...

Dari hasil survei yang disebarkan kepada 1.000 laki-laki, Thomas Whiteman, PhD, penulis Men Who Love Too Little, menyimpulkan bahwa pria menginginkan perempuan:

* Bicara lebih sedikit.

* Minta bantuan lebih sedikit.

* Menunjukkan kemantapan emosional lebih banyak.

* Lebih logis.

* Tidak terlalu meresahkan penampilan.

* Lebih cepat mempersiapkan diri.

* Lebih menyukai olahraga.

Is that really what men want?

Heheheh,... because if it is what men want, ya,.. susye,..

Atau 1000 orang yang di-survey itu ada ambiguous sex orientation? hm,...

Karena menurut Oma, cewe itu, by nature lebih banyak bicara, lebih membutuhkan bantuan (dan, please, deh, cowok-cowok jangan sok jual mahal! Kalian suka kan kalo cewek-cewek minta bantuan kalian? Yeah,... it means we, women, need you and love you!), lebih main perasaan, memikirkan penampilan (emang cowok mau kalo ceweknya kucel nan kumus-kumus?), dan tidak terlalu hobby olah raga (kecuali kalau memang dalam program penurunan berat badan, hehehe)

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I reckon, what men should do is communicationg what they really want from their partners. If the partner is not as good as he expects her to be, ya they have to try together; communicate and, again, communicate!

Women, on the other hand, have to try hard to suit their partners and understand them.

Jadi vice versa, kan?

So, what do women want? :)

Comments

Anonymous said…
i dunno exactly what women want,

but this woman wants his man to not ask too much, shut its beak, and behave properly before even dare to tell this woman, how to behave :p
Oma Nia said…
I agree!!! Because sometimes men ask too much; yet they don't realize that they ain't behaved well either.

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