Cari Muka – emang ilang kemana?

Akhir-akhir ini Oma banyak sekali mendengar kata ‘cari muka’. Kebanyakan dengan embel-embel kata-kata yang lain, seperti “dasar tukang cari muka!” atau “emang dia pintar cari muka!”
Tiba-tiba munculnya pertanyaan lugu ala Oma “lho, muka siapa yang di cari? Emangnya ilang kemana?”

*timpuk Oma* puk,.. puk,… puk,,….

(ampun-ampun)
Gini, lho maksud Oma. Oma tuh bingung kenapa sih harus cari muka? Emang penting ya?

Cari muka, atau lebih akrab dengan sebutan CarMuk, adalah melakukan segala tindakan pura-pura di depan orang yang lebih penting atau kedudukannya lebih tinggi dari kita dengan tujuan supaya kita lebih disayang, lebih dihargai atau lebih dianggap.

Buat Oma, cari muka itu agak buang-buang energi. Iya kalo yang di’cariin mukanya’ alias yang dibaik-baikin tuh orangnya ngeh, kalo nggak ngeh?? RUGI! Kalau pun orang itu ngeh, bisa jadi ia malah sebel ngeliat kita yang sok-sok cari muka.

Jadi, ga boleh cari muka ya, Oma?

Kalo cari muka tuh lebih terkesan negative buat Oma. Kalo mau ngebaik-baikin atasan, misalnya, boleh aja. Tapi ngga perlu sampai berjuang sekuat tenaga untuk cari muka. Cukup tunjukkan aja di depan bos kerjaan kita gimana dan sampai di mana. Boleh lah dibumbu-bumbuin dikit biar kita terlihat “kinclong”, tapi ga perlu sampai ‘menjilat-jilat’ dia. Kalau kita kerja dengan tulus, pasti bos juga langsung jatuh cinta kok ama kita dan kerjaan kita. So, no CarMuk needed.

Yang lebih ga boleh adalah menghalalkan segala cara untuk mencari muka. Mulai dari memaparkan fakta palsu, mengkambing hitamkan orang lain, lempar batu sembunyi tangan, apalagi kalau sampai merugikan orang-orang yang lain. Wah,.. big NO deh buat Oma!

So, mulai sekarang, cucu-cucu Oma ngga bole cari muka lagi ya. Kan semua uda punya satu? Mau nambah? Heheheh,…

Jadi, buat yang karyawan, jangan suka cari muka ya. Cukup kerja dengan tulus, disiplin, pasti bos akan sayang ama kita. Buat yang atasan, kalau uda tau karyawannya cari muka, jangan malah ditanggapin. Jangan sampai diperdaya oleh bawahan yang pintar cari muka. Minta hikmat Tuhan aja.

Happy weekend, anyway!

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